LGBT: My grandma wants me to me more "feminine". Help?

I think you and grandma should have a talk... Maybe you can get her a book or movie to help her understand. Older People did not have as much freedom as we do, about the choices they made for them selves, woman got married and had kids and kept the house up. She will never understand unless you talk to her and explain. My grandparents are the same way, i think its funny, but i dont see them often enough for it to be bothersome